Tuesday, January 13, 2015

My 2014 in review.

Wow, it has been awhile, hasn't it?

This must be the longest time I have not blogged! More than a month. Even when I broke up a few years ago and took a hiatus from blogging, it wasn't this long, I think? It almost feels strange.. foreign... to type on this space.

Anyway, I know we are almost 2 weeks into 2015, and I am probably the last one in the blogosphere to talk about my 2014 in review, but I swear that I have a valid excuse! I fell sick one day after New Year (actually I was sick during Christmas period too, but that's another story for another day), and was quite out of it for a few days. By then, work has piled up and I was busy catching after I recovered.

But that few days that I was on bed rest, I had a lot of time to think about the past year. And I would really like to lay my thoughts on this little personal space of mine. :)

So here goes... My 2014 in review.

1. Love

In early 2014, the boy and I finally moved out! It was mostly due to the fact there wasn't enough space in his family home, plus his family home is really far from KL, where he works. I was so excited, but really nervous too! As it is, I am not the most organized or homey person, and to have to take care of someone else PLUS a naughty puppy... I have to admit, I was scared shit! But I told myself that I would have to learn how to be a wife, how to take care of a household someday... So we took the plunge!

Almost 1 year later, I am glad to report that we are still alive wtf. Staying together is tough! I would say that the boy and I have really good dynamics and rapport pre-cohabitation times, and even then, we fought a lot after moving in. Mostly about chores wtf. We have very different styles when it comes to housework (for me-- house chores will never end, so I do it according to my own schedule and convenience; whereas for him housework is a top priority and he will be gladly doing laundry or cleaning floors at 2am O_O). It took us quite awhile, but I *think* we have managed to figure out some kind of compromise. Fingers crossed that we can keep up the good work! :D

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A little X'mas corner in our humble abode. The Jenga set is actually our wedding guestbook which I used as decor in our home! :)

Which brings me to the biggest thing that has happened to me in 2014 (or make it my whole LIFE)...

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I got married!
To the love of my life whom I have been with for 11 years. :D :D :D

Is there any difference after married life?
Yes and No.

No, 'cause we have already been living together for about 5 months when we got married. Yes, 'cause it does hit home now that we are a team. Whether it's finances, or future plans such as relocation, career changes etc, it's no longer an individual decision. It still makes me giddy to look at my wedding band ("I'm a WIFE!"), and I still shudder when people address me "Mrs Cheah", haha.

2. Family

I am really lucky that although I have moved out, I still stay really near to my family. In fact, I drop by at home almost everyday, HEHEHE. The hubby and I also meet my family for dinner every Sunday (a long-standing tradition in the Hoe household). He also gets along with everyone (even my grandparents who don't really speak English (and he's a banana)!), and I especially thinks that my dad enjoys having someone around to have guy talk with (my brother is still quite young).

One of the challenges of being married is accepting another family as your own, and it's something I am still learning. Making it a point to see the boy's family more as well!

Also, one thing about moving out is that it makes you realize that you really took for granted the times when you were staying together as a family. T__T Nowadays, I will go fetch Teeny for lunch to catch up, and have also recently started a routine of seeing my mom once a week for lunch.

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One of our weekly lunches.

3. Career

I have to admit, when the boy's mom fell sick with terminal cancer in 2013, I got very, very distracted. I spent a lot of time accompanying him, even flying down to Singapore every few days (where his mom was seeking treatment). When she left us, it was a devastating time for the boy and his family. My focus on AZORIAS just wasn't there.

There were times when I told myself, "Damn, I really should start paying attention back on the business, I only have once chance on this". But then I will think, no, I only have this one chance to be there for the boy; I want to be there for him. Do I regret it? No. Did the business suffer as a result? Yes.

Ironically, the more something spiral downwards, the harder it is to admit that you are not doing well. Conveniently, I had a wedding to plan, so it was much more fulfilling to direct my focus and passion there, than to channel my energy into something I felt almost helpless in. Alas, after the wedding, I had nowhere to escape anymore. It was time to face my fear. It was time to get back into motion. It was time to restructure.

One of the limitations of AZORIAS is that it is pricier as compared to some online stores. Of course, being made in Korea products, the quality is great, but I acknowledge that not many people would like to fork out the same amount of money for clothing. Also, sizing. This has got to be the single-most feedback that we get from our customers. Unfortunately though, Korean clothing generally run small in sizes, and for the longest time I have been trying to figure out a way to overcome these limitations. Manufacturing seems to be the way out, but I don't think we are ready for large-scale factory productions yet.

As luck has it, I came across someone who works as a tailor, and after working closely with her for sometime (she does some odd jobs for AZORIAS sometimes, such as minor repairs/ alterations), I found out that she used to be the factory production head in one of Malaysia's leading fashion label. The job doesn't pay much, and when her husband fell ill with cancer a few years ago, she quit her job and became a full-time tailor (which ironically pays more than being a factory head!). She is extremely hardworking and entrepreneurial, working a few jobs at a time, and she was really interested to work together to produce small collections of clothing for AZORIAS.

And thus, ARTISAN was born.

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We have launched this new line for less than a month, and so far response has been quite good! The great thing is, we have sizes now! Size S to L. Hopefully, in the future we can go to size XS and XL as well. :) Prices are also more affordable, starting from RM79 for dresses. Each design is produced in a very small selection though, so things do get sold out quite quickly. If you are interested, do check it out here, and let me know what you think!

4. Travel

2014 was quite filled with travels, and that's something I am always grateful for.

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The year started with our annual Bangkok family trip LOL.

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Went to Bali for the first time, and fell in love with the place!

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Went to Seoul with my family, which was quite special, because I get to show off my 'work place' to my family (especially my parents).

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Went back to Bangkok, but this time with my fellow tai-tais, Audrey and Bobo! It was also my first ever all girls' trip, heh.

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Went to Bali again for our mini-moon.

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Visited Osak, Kyoto and Kobe for the first time as well.

What I hope for 2015:

 i) Career-wise, I want to further build the ARTISAN line, because it is really addictive to get back to my roots of starting an online store-- providing great designs at a decent price and quality standard. I also have another project that I am SO excited about, with a partner whom I just adore. Work looks awesome in 2015, and I can't wait to see how everything unfolds!

ii) Learn to be a better wife-- be supportive in the hubby's endeavors, and be more proactive with household chores. Cook healthier meals, take better care of us. I have only been a wife for about 6 months, but I guess this is an eternal learning process, hehe.

iii) Travel-wise-- hoping to go to Europe and/ or US. I believe in the SECRET, that's all I am going to say! :P

iv) Blog more, with better, more meaningful content. This is inspired from a conversation with Timothy Tiah, where he pointed out that the blogosphere is saturated with girls who just talk about what they wear. It kind of hit home, I know I am capable of much better writing. It's just that somewhere along the lines, you get lost in all the censorship (can't talk too much about work, other half etc.). But I am definitely going to dig a little deeper from now onwards, starting from this extremely honest blog post you are reading right now. :)

v) Practice positive thinking. Admittedly, I haven't been really good with this. It's hard to, when you see how life throws you curveballs and hardships. But being negative isn't Hui Wen, so this year, I want to only harbor GOOD POSITIVE FEELINGS AND THOUGHTS.

vi) Due to the boy's mom's passing, we have not had our tea ceremony or reception, and the plan was to do it after June this year (after 2 full years). We have been making trips to Kluang to get an auspicious wedding date, but each time we have been told to go back the next time. I was really disappointed, and at one point I thought we will never ever get a date. T_T Anyway, during our most recent trip to Kluang, we finally got a date! But it's not in 2015 though. T___T Apparently 2015 is a really bad year for us to get married, and the earliest auspicious date is in May 2016.

To be honest, I was feeling quite bad about doing our ROM 'cause essentially it means we would have to pay double (for photographer, decor etc). The decision to have our ROM came about 'cause we wanted to get registered first, and have a small celebration to please all parties). But now I don't feel bad about it already! Because imagine if we waited for the 2 years to be up, we would still have to wait till 2016 to have the wedding, and we would end up having the longest engagement in history-- 3 years wtf.

Anyway, I hope to book all our vendors and venues ASAP, and not worry about wedding-planning till 2016, HAHA.

Hmm, that's about it, I think! Feeling excited as I type out all the things I look forward to in 2015... Thank you for sticking around, and here's to an awesome year for all of us!

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Friday, December 05, 2014

Bride-to-bes catchup.

One of favorite pastimes is trying out new cafes, and recently there was a mushrooming bout of cafes in TTDI, and they all have a common factor-- funky names! The Frisky Goat, Thvrsday, The Grumpy Cyclist....

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Finally gave the Grumpy Cyclist a go!

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My coffee date wasn't too pleased about having a photo taken LOL. This is Kim, from Accidental Encounters!

This was actually 1 week before my wedding WTF. We were both bride-to-bes then, and we had so much to share and catch up on! But how time flies... Her wedding is TOMORROW! :D :D :D

Her wedding is at Janda Baik, which was one of the venues I was considering for our own wedding. I told her that by attending her wedding I am going to live vicariously through her hahaha.

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Am quite bored with the whole industrial concept of cakes, to be honest. Hope to see a fresh take on cafes soon!

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Selfie time!

Remember I said that this was 1 week before my wedding? Funnily enough though I was the one gobbling down melted cheese sandwiches and gulping down coffee, while she refrained from carbs and only had an orange juice. T_T Made me look so bad wtf.

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Wearing one of my favorite skirts from this YEAR! A really unique neon lemon shade, the best structured flounce, a slightly longer length... LOVE IT!

In fact, I saw a Korean model/ celebrity wearing this exact skirt doing some shooting on Garosugil in Seoul! :D

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Statement tank: Bangkok
Strappy bra-top (worn underneath): Bangkok
Neon neoprene skirt: AZORIAS
Black bejeweled statement necklace: Chatchuchak, Bangkok
Heels: Jeffrey Campbell
Clutch: Miu Miu

By the way, Kim sent me one of the prettiest invitations! Made me reminisce of our own wedding invites... Am thinking of sharing some BTS shoots and sketches of our invites in the next blogpost! :D

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Monday, December 01, 2014

Give me a V!

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If you follow me on Dayre, you will know that recently the boy and I have a new routine on Saturday afternoons...

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Sorry if I scare you LOL.

Beauty dates! Haha. Basically we will put on a mask and chill on the bed, and try to make each other laugh to see whose mask crack first WTF.

This is a black clay mask that I got from Osaka recently. Got it 'cause one of my main skin concerns is blackheads and enlarged pores as I have oily skin. I always try to comfort myself that at least I won't age as quickly with oily skin? Haha.

Was looking for more products for us to try during our Saturday dates, and came across this beauty product website that was recommended by my friends-- www.hermo.my:

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I am not typically a beauty junkie, so it really helps to have a lot of beauty brands and products under one roof, all accessible by a click only! Makes it really easy to browse and compare products. Another useful feature is the reviews by customers on their Beautywall-- something which I always insist on. 'Cause it's something that you will be putting on your skin-- you want to know for sure that it works, and hopefully is gentle and mild as well. Last time, I used a BB cream that wasn't suitable for my skin, and it caused me to have adult acne for a year. T___T

Anyway, other than monthly facials, I also do weekly masks. I didn't used to do this, but after exposing myself to masks in Korea, I was hooked. Somehow they work really well to brighten and rejuvenate skin! I usually stock up whenever I go to Korea for AZORIAS buying trips, but my supply ran out as I usually don't go to Korea at year-end (winter time).

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I came across these Regen Cos masks which was highly rated on Hermo. Steadfastly went through all the reviews, and everyone seemed to be raving about it. Also, I got intrigued 'cause of the 'V' shape chin that they promise!

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OK Regen Cos, I give you a try!

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Made my first order from Hermo.my, and I was pleasantly surprised by the adorable Christmas-themed packaging!

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I got the Regen Cos Synergy Effect mask for pore care. One box comes with 5 pieces.

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The mask actually comes with 2 pieces! One part is for the upper part of your face (worn on like usual facial masks), and the second half is for chin.


I watched this video to learn how to put on the mask properly LOL.

V-shape face, here I come!

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The first thing I did was to open up the first half of the mask. And created a huge mess wtf. I didn't expect the mask to be so laden with moisture! I was dripping the mask juice everywhere wtf. -_-|||

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The second half of the mask, with holes to hook onto your ears. This piece felt like a soft jelly! And please note that my palms are still really wet from all the mask moisture, haha.

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Showed this photo to the hubby, and he asked me: "Why are you showing me a photo of the Mummy" WTF.

YOU WAIT!! When my face is all pointy and sharp, you will kowtow to me. ^_^ or should I say ^v^ wtf

After 20 minutes...

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Face is visibly brighter! Pores are also tighter, and overall, my skin felt smoother. And..and... am I imagining things, but the bottom half of my face is slimmer? :O :O :O

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One more with make up on. I am quite pleased with the results, and will continue on with a weekly routine of Regen Cos mask. Perhaps next time I will try the Whitening one!

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If you are interested to know more about Regen Cos, you can go to here. I was really excited to find a lot of the Korean brands that I usually stock up in Seoul can be found on Hermo.my, such as Missha, Innisfree (I am wearing their hot pink lipstick here) and Tony Moly! Overall, I had a pleasant experience shopping on Hermo.my, and it's reassuring to know that their products are 100% authentic and imported straight from official distributors worldwide. They also offer free shipping if you purchase 2 items and above.

I believe there is a Christmas sale going on Hermo.my now, so it's the best time to shop! During the X'mas season, there are giveaways and promotions every week, and also a chance to win Bobbi Brown Makeup Bag, SK-II Holiday Sets, Honor phones, cash vouchers, iPhone 6 and many more. Do drop by often as they have different flash sales for a limited period of time!

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